Kids need a mom and a dad. This I've learned.
And they need a damn good dad, for sure. A dad who will throw them on the couch and teach them to laugh at their falls and bumps and scratches. A dad who will let them eat junk food for dinner and watch too many cartoons when Mom is out running errands. A dad who has a broad chest for a fuzzy head to snuggle in when he can't quite get to sleep. A dad who teaches them how to use potty words correctly -- even if they use them at school . . . in every other sentence . . . and song (hey, the teachers need a giggle occasionally, right?).
A dad who wishes and hopes and tears up when he thinks about his child's first ballet recital or t-ball game. A dad who is excited about helping with math and history homework. A dad who knows he isn't perfect but is learning and growing and getting a little better with each stage. A dad who prays he doesn't disappoint . . .
I know not every kid gets this. My children are luckier than they'll ever know. Because this is exactly what they've been blessed with . . .
And of course this is exactly the man he's turned out the be. He had a pretty good man to look up to himself.
And then we've got this guy. If you know him, then you need no introductions . . . and are probably wondering how the four of us turned out to be so fantastic :) He he he . . . remember, behind every man there's a great woman . . . and he was wise enough to pick a mighty fine one. And he's not too shabby himself.
At every single cheerleading, school, church, and whatever event I got myself into. He even did a great job with the potty language, too. :) He's quick to argue . . . but very, very quick to apologize. This guy's got a big heart, and he totally passed it on to my brothers, who are two AMAZING dads. Like, blow me away sometimes at the distance they'll go for their kiddos.
So I know that Father's Day was a million years ago, but that's around the time that all sanity and free time for the blog went out the window. Love, love, love the men in my life -- so blessed to have all of them. Little Mack has some big shoes to fill . . . thank goodness his feet are huge :)
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